Single White Male

by CDave, Sunday, June 17, 2018, 22:07 (62 days ago)

I am a widowed white male who would like to connect with women to socialize with! I spend January, February, and March in Zihuatanejo. Last winter, my first winter as single, in over 50 years, I did not know how to socialize and get back into circulation. I need a female guide to lead me through this maze!
D.

Single White Male

by islandgirl @, Cowichan Valley, Monday, June 18, 2018, 00:30 (61 days ago) @ CDave

Since you're there for 3 months, I'd suggest doing some volunteer work. It will get you out and about, meeting all sorts of interesting people from all over the world. That'll lead to group dinners out, having companions for dinner/coffee/outings, and meeting people to do things with. The main thing is, get out there, meet people, have fun, and let nature take it's course.
Best of Luck.

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by ingrid, Tuesday, July 10, 2018, 15:22 (39 days ago) @ islandgirl

I vote for volunteering to some cause that you are interested in. There are tons of things that you can do to make a positive impact and meet like-minded people as a bonus. I am sure you will at least make some good friends with generous spirits and kind hearts. Have fun.

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by OlsenMN, Monday, June 18, 2018, 09:10 (61 days ago) @ CDave

Or try the bar at Coconuts!

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by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Monday, June 18, 2018, 09:29 (61 days ago) @ OlsenMN

Or try the bar at Coconuts!

Bars are the worst places to meet good people.

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Single White Male

by Ernesto ⌂ @, Troncones, Monday, June 18, 2018, 09:37 (61 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Ain't That the Truth !

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by Pam in NJ ⌂ @, Morristown, NJ, Tuesday, June 19, 2018, 20:46 (60 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

agreed.

I'm in Zihua & Troncones in January & February. feel free to email me.

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Single White Male

by Ernesto ⌂ @, Troncones, Monday, June 18, 2018, 09:43 (61 days ago) @ CDave

I was a Single white male when I arrived Dec 14th 2001
I knew how to say ,Baño.Banco ,Cerveza and maybe 1 or 2 other words in Spanish
so I set My mind on learning basic Spanish just so I could Meet a Sweet Thing to get involved with .Look at the LADY IN my Avatar photo We have been together 12 years and She doesn't speak English ! Mucho Suerte Dave !

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Single White Male

by dhunsber @, ¡Dondequiera que voy, estoy aquí!, Friday, June 29, 2018, 09:22 (50 days ago) @ CDave

There used to be occasional meetups of people from this message board, know as Board Parties or Board Meetings, where any member could propose one, set a time and place and see who's interested. I attended a couple and they were fun. One was on Playa Las Gatas and the other on Playa La Ropa. Most attendees were women.

When you near your arrival date, try posting one, and see what kind of interest it draws.

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by Mexalberta @, Tuesday, July 10, 2018, 18:03 (39 days ago) @ CDave

My wife of 43 years passed 12 weeks ago. I was in Mexico in late May early June to fulfil some of her requests.
You are not the only one alone. It was amazing how many people I encountered going through the same process.
Just like life, let the chips fall where they may.
Life won’t be the same but it can still be Life.

Single White Male

by cd69 @, Winnipeg,MB,Canada, Tuesday, July 10, 2018, 20:46 (39 days ago) @ Mexalberta

Sorry for your loss! I find Zihua and the area a good place to heal the soul after a loss.

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by Mexalberta @, Tuesday, July 10, 2018, 23:59 (38 days ago) @ cd69

Thank you.