Chewie passed away?

by Cold in Canada, Sunday, November 18, 2018, 21:36 (2918 days ago)

We heard that Chewie, the writer at Valeria on La Madera passed away. Does anyone have more information?

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Chewie passed away?

by HansMpls, Minneapolis, Monday, November 19, 2018, 08:33 (2918 days ago) @ Cold in Canada

My heart is filled with pain if this is true. The very first thing we do on every trip is to walk down Madera to Valeria and have beers with him and completely enjoy his company and bright personality. If anybody has news - please share.

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by SweetSusy @, Monday, November 19, 2018, 11:23 (2918 days ago) @ HansMpls

Oh no! That would be horrible. Such a sweet young man!

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by Paxtonsmom @, Vancouver Island, BC, Monday, November 19, 2018, 17:05 (2917 days ago) @ SweetSusy

Holding my breath... I'm so fond of Chuy.
I love seeing him wave us down from our perch at Bungalows la Madera.
If this is true, visiting Playa Madera will never be quite the same.

Chewie passed away?

by Roberto G., Monday, November 19, 2018, 19:57 (2917 days ago) @ Paxtonsmom

So very sad...

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Chuy passed away?

by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Monday, November 19, 2018, 20:14 (2917 days ago) @ Roberto G.

Apparently he died from overconsumption of alcohol according to local news reports. It was the same night of the Zanka Beerfest. I don't know if there is any relationship there.

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by allen @, Pacific Northwest, Monday, November 19, 2018, 20:55 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Are you suggesting that he may have died from acute alcohol poisoning from drinking beer?

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by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Monday, November 19, 2018, 21:06 (2917 days ago) @ allen

Are you suggesting that he may have died from acute alcohol poisoning from drinking beer?

No, Allen. But why couldn’t it be where the partying started? You act like BeerFest attendees drink only beer. I just used it as a point of reference that folks who are here might remember. Same night. See how your mind works? B-)

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by allen @, Pacific Northwest, Monday, November 19, 2018, 21:16 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Yes, that is a distinct possibility. But I do not have to ask to tell how your mind works. You often rail against what you call the alcohol culture. As a serious imbiber myself I am often offended by your categorization of a large swath of people. Speaking of the subject, would not mind sipping a shot of Ojo de Vibora with you sometime in the next three weeks. I arrive tomorrow. :)

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Chuy passed away?

by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Monday, November 19, 2018, 21:30 (2917 days ago) @ allen

Yes, that is a distinct possibility. But I do not have to ask to tell how your mind works. You often rail against what you call the alcohol culture. As a serious imbiber myself I am often offended by your categorization of a large swath of people. Speaking of the subject, would not mind sipping a shot of Ojo de Vibora with you sometime in the next three weeks. I arrive tomorrow. :)

Like the old one-eyed hooker told the randy old sailor: I’ll keep an eye out for ya! :lunatic:

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by connie, Monday, November 19, 2018, 22:28 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

True story: As an undergraduate at SIU -Edwardsville, a guy I knew ran for student government. He had a removable glass eye. His campaign posters and motto showed him holding his glass eye, with the words, "Miles has his eye out for you"!!

Chuy passed away?

by allen @, Pacific Northwest, Monday, November 19, 2018, 22:38 (2917 days ago) @ connie

Is there such a thing as a non-removable glass eye? :)

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by HolyMole, Monday, November 19, 2018, 23:34 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob
edited by HolyMole, Monday, November 19, 2018, 23:39

Yes, that is a distinct possibility. But I do not have to ask to tell how your mind works. You often rail against what you call the alcohol culture. As a serious imbiber myself I am often offended by your categorization of a large swath of people. Speaking of the subject, would not mind sipping a shot of Ojo de Vibora with you sometime in the next three weeks. I arrive tomorrow. :)


Like the old one-eyed hooker told the randy old sailor: I’ll keep an eye out for ya! :lunatic:

Now, you Whiteheads be nice to each other.

And yes, we'll miss Chuy too. Always a smile. He and Jorge were always welcoming....in Jorge's case, since 'way back when he was with Miguel.

may he rest in peace

by katherine @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 07:00 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Chuy was a bright light on Madera beach, who will be mourned and missed by many.

may he rest in peace

by Eli @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 09:12 (2917 days ago) @ katherine

Not to you, Katherine, but to all the others...His name is spelled CHUY. Please show respect by spelling his name correctly

may he rest in peace

by katherine @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 09:16 (2917 days ago) @ Eli

:megusta:

may he rest in peace

by HolyMole, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 17:23 (2916 days ago) @ Eli

Not to you, Katherine, but to all the others...His name is spelled CHUY. Please show respect by spelling his name correctly

Not me either? I'm chopped liver?

may he rest in peace

by Lee, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 18:24 (2916 days ago) @ Eli

Not to you, Katherine, but to all the others...His name is spelled CHUY. Please show respect by spelling his name correctly

Many of us did not know how to spell Chuy’s name, so anglicized it in our heads to Chewie or Chewey. If the original post had not used that misspelling, many readers might not have learned this sad news.

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by Doozer, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 09:29 (2917 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

I am so sorry to hear this. He was a bright and shining star on Playa Madera and will be greatly missed.

Chuy passed away?

by zihuacat, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 18:17 (2916 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Our beloved Chuy...Jesus Ramirez Gonzales...did pass away early Saturday morning. He had been with his soccer team he coached in Coyacoyul Saturday night, not at the beer fest. It's unfair to link his death to the beerfest unless you were there! The cause of death remains unclear to us, his family would have the full details. It's not for us to judge or speculate, simply to remember his beautiful smile , wonderful sense of humour, and great service. RIP Chuy

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by Decorah @, La Ropa, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 18:34 (2916 days ago) @ zihuacat

:megusta:

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by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 18:45 (2916 days ago) @ zihuacat

Our beloved Chuy...Jesus Ramirez Gonzales...did pass away early Saturday morning. He had been with his soccer team he coached in Coyacoyul Saturday night, not at the beer fest. It's unfair to link his death to the beerfest unless you were there! The cause of death remains unclear to us, his family would have the full details. It's not for us to judge or speculate, simply to remember his beautiful smile , wonderful sense of humour, and great service. RIP Chuy

Apparently there's some misunderstanding. No one said or inferred that he went to the BeerFest. As to the cause of death, all the local newspapers that reported his death said the same thing.

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by Eli @, Monday, November 26, 2018, 11:58 (2911 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

Said the same thing...what?

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by Eli @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 09:17 (2917 days ago) @ Roberto G.

I've heard different stories, but I'm not going to pass them on. Let's not guess or gossip. Fact is our dear, funny, bright, sweet Chuy is gone! What a loss. Oh, Chuy! So many people loved you!!

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by Karenkel @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 09:27 (2917 days ago) @ Eli

:megusta:

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by HansMpls, Minneapolis, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 10:58 (2917 days ago) @ Cold in Canada

My heart is broken, what a tragedy. Please post a photo of him if you can. A few years ago, at his invitation, we attended a soccer game for a men's team that he coached at the track and field stadium. His appreciation for our presence and the pride in his team was unforgettable. When we traveled with our sons he made sure they had boogie boards to play with and ever flowing Jarritos. Chuy could spot us a mile away as we approached Valeria and call us by name - every year. His favorite joke, to tap a shoulder and walk in the opposite direction always got the best of us. We will greatly miss you mi amigo. See you on the other side.

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by Paxtonsmom @, Vancouver Island, BC, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 12:28 (2916 days ago) @ HansMpls

Hans I have very similar memories. I attended his football games last November and had a ball and I agree, the pride he showed for his team was palpable.
He was one of my favourite pieces of Zihua and it was lovely to see him year after year. I will miss him.
May he rest in peace.

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by Lee, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 18:05 (2916 days ago) @ Paxtonsmom

I have been a reader of this message board on and off for years, but was never impelled to register and post until I learned here of Chuy’s death. Shock, sadness, disbelief were my first responses but I had to discard that third, disbelief, when his death was confirmed to me by another of Madera’s dear souls, Norma Ramirez. My disbelief is now reserved for the rumor his death was related to excessive alcohol consumption. Once taking a break at my table between spurts of running onto the beach to lure customers with offers of tequila, Chuy told me that he himself did not drink alcohol, was a vegetarian and very careful about his health. Over the years of my knowing him, he gave me no reason to doubt the truth of that. He was a dear, smart, playful, loving man who brought joy and friendship to so many on Playa Madera. I hate to hear his memory besmirched by rumors of drunken, irresponsible behavior. That is just not who I knew him to be. Reportedly his companeros are saying he died from a blow to his head, on a day he played soccer and his injury was “misinterpetada.” That’s vague, also just a rumor as far as I can say, but a rumor of his dying from soccer-related injuriy makes more sense to me than a rumor of his dying from alcohol.

I have a wonderful picture of him that I will post when I figure out how to do that.

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by SweetSusy @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 22:26 (2916 days ago) @ Lee

Chuy and the other waiters on Madera baked a cake for my birthday a few years ago. When my husband and I came to the beach that day they all stopped what they were doing and took the time to sing to me and have a piece of my cake. It was one of the sweetest gestures anyone has ever done for me. My husband and I were talking about him at dinner tonight and my husband spoke of the tapping on the shoulder too. Sweet man. We will miss him.

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by Leemr @, Tuesday, November 20, 2018, 23:20 (2916 days ago) @ Lee

Lee, please do post the picture or ask Rob for help. As usual, I'm too late.
I was planning to go down to visit him, have a beer, some totopos and guacamole. But now, it just doesn't feel worth the effort. A pit stop on La Madera doesn't have that same "draw" any longer...Rest Easy Chuy, my friend.

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by katherine @, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 05:46 (2916 days ago) @ Lee

:megusta:

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by Eli @, Monday, November 26, 2018, 11:55 (2911 days ago) @ Lee

I have a great photo I will post after I read how to.

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by Cold in Canada, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 01:17 (2916 days ago) @ Cold in Canada

RIP Chuy. Apologies for spelling your name wrong. We will miss your smiling face and welcoming wave as we walk down the beach. We will miss having " our" table set with our preferred beverage before we even get there. We will miss your Spanish lessons every day. Madera will not be the same without you. God bless.

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by Lee, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 09:24 (2916 days ago) @ Cold in Canada

I have not succeeded in finding a way to post my photo of a smiling, waving Chuy. I have no url for it. I have sent it from my personal computer to Rob via Facebook Messenger in the hope he can paste it here.

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Posting Photos from Facebook

by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 10:21 (2916 days ago) @ Lee

If the photo is in your Facebook images then it has a URL you can copy and paste here. Simply open the image in Facebook, right-click on it and select "Open in a new tab", then copy that URL from the address bar, paste it into your message, highlight it and click the icon to the right that says "image" and select "default".

Posting Photos from Facebook

by Lee, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 14:43 (2915 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

If the photo is in your Facebook images then it has a URL you can copy and paste here. Simply open the image in Facebook, right-click on it and select "Open in a new tab", then copy that URL from the address bar, paste it into your message, highlight it and click the icon to the right that says "image" and select "default".

Thanks, Rob,but I have tried this twice now, from an Ipad and a PC, and it is not working. When I put it on FB, do I need to make it a public share instead of just to me or friends?

Posting Photos from Facebook

by Lee, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 15:26 (2915 days ago) @ Lee

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This is what happens when I follow those instructions.

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by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 17:25 (2915 days ago) @ Lee

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This is what happens when I follow those instructions.

You need to click ON the photo to open it up. THEN right-click, etcetera. Like this. (I don't think you can do it on iPad)

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CHUY photo

by Lee, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 21:33 (2915 days ago) @ ZihuaRob
edited by Lee, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 21:52

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Thanks for posting the photo, Rob.

CHUY photo

by Charlybby, Friday, November 23, 2018, 15:04 (2913 days ago) @ Lee

What a great pic!!

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Posting Photos from Facebook

by Helene @, Zih, Thursday, November 22, 2018, 10:58 (2915 days ago) @ ZihuaRob

I clicked on the image and it did not open up. I wish you would figure out an easier way to post pictures and music on your site. It's too complicated for us peons.

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by ZihuaRob ⌂ @, Zihuatanejo, México, Thursday, November 22, 2018, 12:18 (2914 days ago) @ Helene

I clicked on the image and it did not open up. I wish you would figure out an easier way to post pictures and music on your site. It's too complicated for us peons.

Helene, I was referring to the image in Facebook, not what Lee posted here. I believe it is an extremely simple process.

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by HansMpls, Minneapolis, Wednesday, November 21, 2018, 11:02 (2916 days ago) @ Cold in Canada

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