Trick or Treating

Hola
So you consider yourself an American. You are not a citizen of the United Mexican States? Where I am from (Canada America) if I am called an American, it is an insult because the whole world (except you) associates that word to mean the USA.

This is a very subtle and sensitive topic. The whole world does not automatically associate American with a U.S. citizen. However, for many, it is simply understood. As demonstrated by this conversation thread, the subtleties and misunderstandings can engender prickly responses.

I love the Spanish word for a United States citizen, estadounidense. If were to find a literal English equivalent, we would most likely say UnitedStater, as we might say someone from New York is a New Yorker. Speaking in English, when the situation arises that I need to specify my citizenship, I use the word UnitedStater and get odd and, at times, amused looks.

@Padrino

Excellent reply.

The Estadounidense term should also be used instead of the terms gringo, gabacho, etcétera,
though the use of that terminology is too ingrained to change it.

Though Yes, preguntando al mesero si tienen una salsa para los Gringos would be good, (meaning una salsa menos picante, si no una que no pica).

When I'm asked the usual pregunta, "where are you from"?
I say: southern California.
Done deal y punto.